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Mr Williams?
Originally posted by Marsha Paragon-Singh
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Here’s the truth; Danhi Williams has a narsiccistic personality (which was confirmd to me by a psychologist who counselled us for 2 months). Unfortunately I discovered this after giving birth. The lies are countless and the justifications endless and they continue. The deceptions go deep and are cruel, and they continue. The emotional roller coaster which has resulted has put me in a deep depression which affects my appetite, sleep, and mood mostly. The relationship was built on my perception of his many many lies. The baby and my current financial situation are my new prison.
I am sick to my core of him. Any good feeling derrived from him is based on deception/false hope and as such is short lived. Bad feelings prevail 9 times out of 10. I don’t speak behind his back, anything said here has already been said to him. I have no hope for ‘us’. Narcissists are at war with themselves, they can’t help themselves. They live in a different world, they rationalize every wrong they do to others. So change is next to impossible, he is too caught up in his ‘greatness’ to admit such a disorder. This is impossible for me to live with in peace, as I am the opposite of submissive. It is pointless to love him, for he doesn’t know what love is. He thinks what he feels for me is love, but it’s not. I am a mirror to him, I confront him on every level with the ugly truth, I do not concede, I pull him up, I therefore he cannot conquer me, so I become a mission of some sort. He knows something is wrong with him, perhaps that is why he must have me to keep him on the right track. But there is no joy in constantly having to pull up your spouse, on integral relationship issues.
That is stressful, because every time you think things are getting better, same sh/t, different day. He has lived his life doing as he pleases and getting away with it. He thinks he ought to be able to talk me into things still…I am tired of his rubbish, I’m tired of listening to his BS, I’ve given 2 wasted years trying to build a relationship with someone who wants to be arms length from me always, so I just want back my money or I go to court. He expects me to feel comfortable in a relationship with him when I know he is lying about so many things. He thinks he should tell me what I should believe. Narsissists are pathological liars so honesty will never exist between us. I wish you knew what I know, you would see too, even his best friend agrees with me. But, “a jus Busha dat” according to him. I will not be broke and be with him in peace. When I first met him he was seeing a girl who was then as skinny as I am now. I now realise that he causes depression in every woman he’s with. Depression affects people differently, Carlene got fat.
He does not understand that if my appreciation of him is just for provisions and not for himself, then, what’s the point? I have told him so many times how much I hate him and he thinks I’m just angry. I’m not, I really hate him for the cruel things he has done to me; for the many deceptions, for the humiliation suffered, for the pain, for having no conscience and the unreasonable situation surrounding my money. He has stolen millions of US$ and has the heart to keep my $87,000 so I will be dependent on him. Before I become dependent and fall into his trap, I will take him to court!
I am sick to my core of him. Any good feeling derrived from him is based on deception/false hope and as such is short lived. Bad feelings prevail 9 times out of 10. I don’t speak behind his back, anything said here has already been said to him. I have no hope for ‘us’. Narcissists are at war with themselves, they can’t help themselves. They live in a different world, they rationalize every wrong they do to others. So change is next to impossible, he is too caught up in his ‘greatness’ to admit such a disorder. This is impossible for me to live with in peace, as I am the opposite of submissive. It is pointless to love him, for he doesn’t know what love is. He thinks what he feels for me is love, but it’s not. I am a mirror to him, I confront him on every level with the ugly truth, I do not concede, I pull him up, I therefore he cannot conquer me, so I become a mission of some sort. He knows something is wrong with him, perhaps that is why he must have me to keep him on the right track. But there is no joy in constantly having to pull up your spouse, on integral relationship issues.
That is stressful, because every time you think things are getting better, same sh/t, different day. He has lived his life doing as he pleases and getting away with it. He thinks he ought to be able to talk me into things still…I am tired of his rubbish, I’m tired of listening to his BS, I’ve given 2 wasted years trying to build a relationship with someone who wants to be arms length from me always, so I just want back my money or I go to court. He expects me to feel comfortable in a relationship with him when I know he is lying about so many things. He thinks he should tell me what I should believe. Narsissists are pathological liars so honesty will never exist between us. I wish you knew what I know, you would see too, even his best friend agrees with me. But, “a jus Busha dat” according to him. I will not be broke and be with him in peace. When I first met him he was seeing a girl who was then as skinny as I am now. I now realise that he causes depression in every woman he’s with. Depression affects people differently, Carlene got fat.
He does not understand that if my appreciation of him is just for provisions and not for himself, then, what’s the point? I have told him so many times how much I hate him and he thinks I’m just angry. I’m not, I really hate him for the cruel things he has done to me; for the many deceptions, for the humiliation suffered, for the pain, for having no conscience and the unreasonable situation surrounding my money. He has stolen millions of US$ and has the heart to keep my $87,000 so I will be dependent on him. Before I become dependent and fall into his trap, I will take him to court!
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